Relationships are simple, really. It’s all about love, and yet complexity abounds. Maybe it’s because of us as people who are torn between what we want and what is real, who we are and who we want to be. But when you think about it, if both people in a relationship just loved each other in good times and bad, in sickness and health, until the end of their lives, how could that relationship be anything but healthy, fulfilling and long lasting? That’s because when we uncover what love really is, it might just shatter our notions of any credibility to the phrase “falling out of love” or “not being able to control who you love”.

Love doesn’t disappear when the emotions aren’t there. That’s a common misperception that many people have when it comes to relationships. They think that because they don’t feel anything, they must be out of love and that they must not be in love, and that their relationship is just an empty shell. Fortunately, however, relationships aren’t just based on emotions that go up and down, change over time, and cycle back; relationships are also based on commitment and being in community with one another. It’s about communicating through difficult circumstances, working together to overcome obstacles, and understanding and supporting one another through everything else in life. Where love grows the most is in the most difficult times, not when everything is going right or when you feel great. It’s through hardship that love grows stronger, is tested and comes out even more refined and pure than it was before the fire.

But sadly, most people can’t take the heat and want to get out. At the first sign of difficulty, they lose hope and want to take the easy way out. That’s why it’s so important to find and meet the right person – someone who has the same core value and commitment to the relationship as you do, someone who understands that relationships are not easy and that they need to be fought for, not against. No matter how hard we may try to change someone, we hardly have the effect that we want on people. But starting a relationship with someone who understands your needs and who is willing to go through the difficult times and who understands that relationships and love is much more than feeling emotions is a special person. Finding that person, however, can seem like a fairy tale.

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